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I have been dating my bf for 2.5 yrs and we are compatible everywhere except the bedroom! Any suggestion?
I love him to death, but quite frankly I am just not getting what I need. It doesn't help that my ex (who I was very compatible with) is around a lot more now. I want to produce things work, as this is a guy I thought I could marry.
When I say we are not compatible in the bedroom, I mean I am not satisfied. Being a male, well, he is satisfied every time. I think he is truly happy with our sex life (except maybe wanting more sex). However, when he gets what he wants and I don't, it doesn't exactly make me scarcity to jump in bed. I have tried being delicate so as to not bruise his ego. I try suggesting new things (positions, etc) but nothing really seems to change it. I worry that I am right not sexually attracted to him enough.
I'd say that the only way to fix a problem in the bedroom is to be upfront about it. Don't say "hey you're not giving me what I need," but do be honest. Soften the blow by saying something tantamount to "maybe we could try such and such tonight, because this and this isn't really doing it for me." He can't fix anything until he knows there's a problem.
Talk about it and be gentle with his ego
EDIT
Yeah you really have to push so that they take care of us.. it's harder for us to orgasm. I had to keep reminding my bf not to give up on me.. he's vexing lol
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